So you've been in communication with each other for almost a year; you can go out together and have a blast; the physical aspect of things is amazing!! You completely get each other but there is a problem......He wants you to chase him and your so independent that you refuse to do that; in your mind it doesn't make sense so you wait for him to initiate the contact. He does and you're happy but still kind of annoyed so you talk about it both placing blame on each other...you agree to stop the NONSENSE & SIMPLY COMMUNICATE...Of course this only lasts a few weeks barely a month. So what do you do....you really like each other and you have a bunch of fun together but he's used to being chased and so are you...I mean shouldn't HE BE CHASING YOU ...YOU are a WOMAN....LOL!! So finally you decide enough is enough and you bow out gracefully.....NO LOVE LOST...you'd just rather not settle.
I've said this a million times but men do not settle and we as women should not settle either. If he's feeling you as much as you think he is then....GUESS WHAT???? He'll make the effort and if he can't make the effort than he's not worth the trouble. We've all seen the signs and made ourselves available regardless of what we felt. Sometimes there will be circumstances where He's just not that into you and GUESS WHAT?? It's ok...he's allowed to feel that way and so are you. STOP WASTING TIME...move on to the person that will make you feel AMAZINGLY BEAUTIFUL...NO MATTER WHO'S AROUND. So even though you thought he was the one and you thought if for no other reason thank the great sex could hold things together... most times that isn't enough and you have to walk away because POOR COMMUNICATION ....ONLY GETS WORSE....TRUST ME I KNOW...& I am single now because I refuse to SETTLE FOR LESS THAN I AM WORTH!!
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