How Many Kids Did You Say??

So you're broadening your horizons you are trying to be objective and after months of putting yourself out there you meet someone. He's tall, dark and handsome and you are ecstatic! The few conversations that you have are enlightening you haven't laughed so much in your life and then you start discussing children. No biggie you think hey I'm 31 he's 32 by this time you expect that the single men you meet will come with some children in tow. So I reveal that I have one toddler very smart and I'm honest when I say don't really want any more children if I'm not married and he too agrees with this; but still hasn't stated how many kids he has..... So I ask because I'm direct if nothing else. I say plain in simple do you have any kids??? His reply yes 7. I say excuse me did you just say 7? He says yes, I'm speechless but I gather my thoughts maybe he was married and they just really loved kids. The plot thickens; no marriage 7 kids; 3 mothers and out of the 7 2 kids all boys are twins. Picking my bottom lip up I say oh really so you're done right. His response I don't have any girls I wouldn't mind another one if and when I get married. My response oh really I can't imagine. 

Look kids are great but unless you are wealthy and can afford to take care of all of them I have to walk away from anything over 3!! I like sex just as much as the next person but give me a break. Am I suppose to believe that this man who just started working at said job is able to financially and emotionally support 7 boys who do not live with him & then incorporate myself and my son into the mix....NO WAY!! Ladies save yourself some heartache and follow your gut if they have more children than you can tolerate on any given day.... Guess What?! They are not the one for you!!! If you like the individual and think that they should be apart of your life then do what I did.....Give them an Invitation to the Friend Zone. They may not want it or accept but then they can walk away without you going through the motions of them being rejected. It's is nothing wrong with not settling for less..people do it all the time!!!