It's Been a Minute

I use this blog as a point of expression; it keeps me sane and allows me to vent. I have taken a break from so much in my life in an effort to regain my focus. In doing so I have gained clarity; about who I am and what exactly I need to do in order to successfully thrive in society and LIFE period. I know that no one except me and God can create my happiness so I am going to continue to make the decisions that are most beneficial to myself and my son  the best decision I ever made was the decision to better myself and with that being said going forward; I will continue to treat myself as my top PRIORITY. I know you only get back what you give and so I am moving forward and refusing to settle because in the LONG RUN compromising one's self is COUNTERPRODUCTIVE. I am prepared to walk this journey alone if only for a little while because I refuse to COMPROMISE myself in any way!!

You Ain't Slick!!!!!

So he only texts you or hits you up via inbox on Facebook or IM and when you question him about it his response more or less is: Baby you know I'm Busy. LMAO that's code for I have a Girlfriend or a Fiance/Wife and you are not a priority but I do want to have SEX with you!!! Or we have been getting it in and I don't want it to stop but I have a situation and I WANT MY CAKE AND EAT IT TOO....Don't fall into the trap of this nonsense become unavailable.... you THINK if he didn't have a situation he would make the time and because of his situation he isn't and shouldn't be making the time for you. Please you will never be a priority for him so don't fool yourself!!! So you can tell him YOU AIN'T SLICK.....CALL HIM ON HIS BS.....LMAO. I promise he'll get the hint and either leave you alone or more importantly tend to his SIGNIFICANT OTHER. Let's be honest you don't want him to leave her for you because KARMA AIN'T NO JOKE ;-). THE SAME WAY YOU GET HIM WILL BE THE SAME WAY YOU LOSE HIM......TRUST!!

The Situation

Ok ladies and gents I'm really tryna understand something. You meet someone you find them attractive and you're either married, engaged or in what's suppose to be a relationship but you somehow feel intrigued and can't walk away so you refer to your relationship as a situation. Thus explaining that you love this person but you are allowed to cheat; or have an open relationship; or simply just letting this person know what the situation is so there aren't any expectations outside of sex. My question is a simple one: If you want to behave as if you're single why not be single? It's not hard you simply leave and  move forward with your life without this other person. It's such a selfish act and even when the 3rd party agrees in the beginning they only do so with the MORBID thought that somehow you'll realize they're awesome and only want them. What I know for a fact is that this will never be the case and even if for some strange reason you were picked the same way you get him/her is the same way you lose them. So when you hear I GOT A SITUATION SIMPLY SMILE AND WALK AWAY :-)