Monday, October 3, 2011

Guys and Borrowing Money from Women

Recently one of my guy friends made the biggest mistake ever he asked to borrow money! OMG why would he do that things were going along just fine. I was able to vent to him and he could vent to me as well we were there for each other emotionally and then he decided to up the ante! Guys if you don't know this move right here is a major, major, major turn off. A women that is interested in you wants to know that you will be there for her emotionally and financially and she wants to know that you can take care of business. If you are asking her; a woman like myself (a single mom recently laid off) to borrow money then that attraction instantly fizzles! Word of advice play it safe and discuss money matters with you family never someone you're romantically interested in because then you'll start seeing an instant change your calls/text messages will be ignored and they will be moving on without you. Money is a sensitive issue I don't lend it unless I can afford not to get it back and with my circumstances as they are I rather not travel that route. So keep things simple by keeping money out of it especially early on.

1 comment:

  1. HaHa I never laughed so hard....I won't be letting anyone borrow anything....lol good one!!!

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