Mr. 23!!!

I've been single for quite some time and at this moment it is definitely by choice. At first I thought to my self "Why don't you just do what you're used to doing and just be in a relationship"? Then I thought about the fact that I really don't have the time or patience for that right now so there is no need to rush into anything and as soon as I do that then Mr. 23 calls. Hey I missed you haven't heard from you in awhile how you been. My reply: I'm fine plenty busy glad to see you're doing well. A bunch of mindless catch up conversation and then he says look it's been almost a year I'm trying to be your man. I instantly LOL because I know he can't be serious. I mean yeah he's been in contact and yeah we've seen each other but we haven't really bonded enough to be in a relationship. So I say are you certain that's what you want I mean you don't seem to be available for that. His reply just give me some time that's what I want. Look Mr. 23 I get it we're vibing and you're digging the physical but by no means are you ready to be in a relationship. Let's get serious I come with responsibility and you have no obligations outside of your few bills. The young ones are fun; they make you feel young and they also keep you entertained. But Mr. 23 I'm not some old biddy without options on a good day I look 25 so why would I make myself available to you now Hummmm let me think I know it's CUFFING SEASON & YOU DON'T WANNA HAVE TO GO FISHING. LMAO I learned a long time ago that everything that looks good ISN'T NECESSARILY GOOD FOR YOU...SOOOOOOO I'LL PASS.....Call me in a few years maybe you'll be ready then.....NO CUDDY BUDDY OVER HERE!!