The New Girlfirend

We have been broken up for years and the back and forth has ended and now he's in a new relationship. My response instantly was YAYYYYY!! I'm happy for you congrats are you getting married because maybe then you'll leave me alone...LOL but honestly that's how I felt. Then something very strange happened he wants to see our son and we have plans so I tell him not today because we have plans my grandparents are visiting from out of town and now he's pissed. Well instead of compromising and coming up with a resolution he handles it in the most IMMATURE WAY POSSIBLE. He gives her my number and she decides to give me a call (YES HER THE NEW GIRLFRIEND). She introduces herself and I am less than amused she says she's calling on his behalf. I cut to the quick; are you married? do you have children together? Answers all NO. So I say look honey you don't know all the facts don't poke your nose where it doesn't belong. I rip her a new one because I am livid and almost a month later; we; myself and my ex discuss what TRANSPIRED. HE SAID ...SEEMS LIKE YOU'RE STILL ANGRY....MY RESPONSE YOU THINK!!! He apologizes and I say that's nice but your New Girlfriend needs to be apologizing as well.

Hot DAMN!!! The new girlfriend calls and she's apologetic and seems sincere, she realizes she has overstepped her bounds and wants to make amends. I tell her look I know why you did what you did but you should have gotten all the facts before you plunged in head first. You let him manipulate you and basically feed you to the wolves. Yes she agrees.... I say look I don't DWELL in DRAMA I'm too old for that I will let bygones be bygones....and let he know she's on watch.

We had a good talk she shared way too much information but that's fine with me (remember she's on watch...LOL). I wished her luck in this relationship and told her I was not a threat to the survival of their relationship. Her response was she knows that now and she realizes that I know him far better than she does and she will have to be more observant. My take on all of it is this.... NEW GIRLFRIEND's don't force your way into the fold when you have not even been introduced to the child's mother. When he makes you a priority then you can have all the one on one's you like until that time comes BACK OFF!!! Because you might encountered someone like me who will rip you to shreds verbally and have you apologizing every time we speak because you found out I am not the EVIL WITCH he created. Ladies please realize we don't have to be enemies of the NEW GIRLFRIEND....SHE JUST NEEDS TO KNOW HER BOUNDARIES.